A single mum has penned a poignant letter to the father of her kids - and it is resonating with thousands of parents.
The letter, which has gone viral, has been branded "powerful" by mums and dads on social media. It was immediately shared across the UK by thousands of social media users - and has since spread across the globe. She has been left exasperated over funding her children's needs without any support from the kid's dad.
Child Maintenance payments can cause huge friction and arguments over how much money should be paid, and how the money should be used. The letter, more than Birimngham, words long, offers an honest insight into the mother's toils and outlines the Single moms club Birmingham catalogue of failings. So when you stalk my Instagram and Facebook and see me Single moms club Birmingham the most of my child-free weekends with friends — rest assured I Clacton-on-Sea black dating sites free funding.
Let me spell this out for you — any money you pay to help with the raising of our children goes directly to our children. Let me tell you, it could result in us needing to find a cheaper home, in a less cluv area, and without a doubt mean a change in school.
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It pays towards childcare, or did you think nursery was free when I used Single moms club Birmingham one day a week so I could work? You should take a walk in my shoes one day and you will see your cash is key to providing the lifestyle our children deserve. The law requires a non-resident parent to pay 12 per cent of your gross weekly income if you have one child and 16 per cent of your gross weekly income to the resident parent if you have two children.
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Eastleigh massage Eastleigh prospect United Kingdom I know that not paying, not paying on time, or not paying the correct amount is the very last bit of control you have over me. You're actually very cunning, because you do pay - to the penny - what the CMS order you to pay, so on paper you can "prove" you pay towards your children's upbringing "properly".
You've got yourself covered - but you and I both know that's not the full story. The CMS order you an amount to pay based on the amount YOU have declared to them - but the small wage you pay yourself is not a true reflection of what you actually earn.
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I bet I receive a lot more money in maintenance than many other single parents, some would be grateful of what I receive, but why should our children have 16 per cent of a false income, made up by you, when they're entitled to more? I speak on behalf of all single parents when I Free stuff Maidstone gwent this simply isn't good enough, the current UK system isn't good.
MPs need to wake up and Bifmingham more to give the CMS better powers to financially investigate non-resident parents.
It's a problem which affects thousands of single parent families, one many feel they can't do anything about, but one I'm not prepared to let go.
No matter what happened between you and the woman you once loved enough to father two children with, you still have a financial responsibility towards your children. All I know is that I am trying to provide a life which is similar to what Backpage women seeking men Stockport would have had if you and I had not split up.
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